Here I’m in my soul searching mode once again and after a very long time.
What a wonderful thing is the human mind.! All your sickness, and sorrows, depression or empathy for the fellow patients in the hospital are all forgotten once you get discharged and you get busy with your own life, until you find yourself again inside the four walls of the hospital where you oscillate between hope and despair.
It takes a while for you to come out of the shock of seeing your loved one in the ICU with all sorts of tubes, and surrounded by blinking, beeping machines.
After a harrowing night in the waiting room, I came to terms with the reality, pulled myself out of self pity and looked around. There were several people like me in the waiting hall hoping for a call from the resident doctor, searching the net for information about the ailments of the loved ones, talking to anxious relatives who are far away.
We developed a silent communication with one another. And also shared our tales if and when the gloom lifted. All tales were sorrowful
But this story had a strong impact on me.
It is a mother and daughter duo waiting for the father in the ICU. The merciless cancer cells had invaded the lungs of this dear gentleman and lay hidden in the esophagus for a very long time without showing any symptoms. The dear old daddy went to hospital too late,and unfortunately he was not fit for chemotherapy. And he developed pneumonia and the family brought him to the hospital
Hour after hour of excruciating wait and the update from the ICU depressed them all the more. The aged wife who was every now and then using her asthma inhaler tried her best to keep afloat. But the latest update as per the daughter is,’the ventilator is going to be pulled out’. When she said that, I had goosebumps.
Is this not hanging between life and death?